Professional Dutch Dominatrix
The Lady Lux
“The Lady Lux” is a sophisticated and highly professional Dominatrix whose reputation extends across multiple international publications.
Nineteen years of experience
She entered the fetish world as a Domme when she was eighteen years old, accumulating a wealth of experience over the past nineteen years.
Based in Capelle aan den IJssel, Netherlands
Milady Lux
The titles ‘Lady’ or ‘Milady,’ are not just random social media monikers; In addition to her sophistication and style, she is genuinely of noble lineage. She is a descendant of a notorious Dutch lord, her ancestors maintained possession of a castle for 156 years. Regarding the other branch of her family she is a descendant of a viscount. Unlike her infamous forefather who tormented ‘witches,’ she reserves punishment exclusively for those who crave and require it.
The Lady Lux only engages in sessions that she personally finds enjoyable, and she takes pleasure in collaborating with her subs and clients in unique therapeutic ways. While she can be stern and even sadistic, she also demonstrates empathy, fostering an environment where you can freely express yourself.
Lux as a multi faceted therapist: Besides being a Pro Domme she also works as a therapist/coach and sexologist, her practice spans across a broad array experience. She specializes in trauma therapy and also religious trauma therapy (especially for ex Jehovah’s Witnesses), grief counseling, she coaches individuals with gender exploration and transition and she is a kink coach one on one and for couples. Her diverse expertise allows her to provide a comprehensive approach to mental health, catering to a vast range of personal challenges and journeys.
She facilitate kink coaching sessions where individuals and couples can talk freely about their interests and desires regarding BDSM.
Please note, Lux is a Lady and Dominatrix. Not an escort. Her sessions do not incorporate any form of sexual activities.
Application process
Please note that not everyone will be granted a session. It is mandatory to undergo an intake process via email before any booking is confirmed.
If you would like to be considered, please send her a polite motivation message that introduces yourself and explains why you desire to be dominated by her.
Sessions
Below is a brief overview of some sessions. For more details about session options, please visit the "Sessions" page.
Caging and confinement
Interested in Experiencing Confinement? Explore Various Ways with The Lady Lux. Do you have a yearning to be locked away and submit to the control of Lux? The experience can range from soothing to thrilling, and Lux offers a variety of ways to satisfy this unique desire. You might find yourself placed in a dog cage, possibly while donning a sensory deprivation hood and having your hands securely fastened behind your back. And off course there's the option of the big cage, or the dark box awaits. Each confinement method offers a different level of sensation and surrender.
Foot and high heel fetish
Foot Fetish with The Lady Lux: A Celebration of Elegance and Desire Foot fetish, or podophilia, is among the most celebrated fetishes, with a history reaching back to Ancient Greece. It has evolved through the centuries, transcending mere physical fascination to become a symbol of reverence and desire. Do you yearn to adore The Lady Lux's exquisite feet, or perhaps her elegant heels or her boots? Your wish can be fulfilled.
Servitude
The concept of service can be understood and expressed in a multitude of ways. In the context of a session, this might manifest through various combinations of activities, such as massaging The Lady Lux’s feet, acting as human furniture, performing tasks like cleaning or grocery shopping, cooking, or even serving as a driver. For those with submissive inclinations, being in service and enhancing someone’s life through thoughtful actions can be a deeply fulfilling and beautiful experience.
Introduction session
Embarking on the path of BDSM can be both thrilling and intimidating. The Lady Lux's Introduction Session is crafted with care for newcomers, providing a safe, professional, and personalized environment to explore and learn. Whether you're entirely new to BDSM, have limited experience, or are seeking to overcome previous negative experiences, this session is for you.
Impact play session
Impact play offers a wide variety of experiences, ranging from spanking and caning to wax play, electroplay, trampling, nipple play, flogging, and much more. If you're interested in exploring this option, please feel free to discuss your preferences and boundaries via email. Many individuals find pleasure in high levels of pain, reveling in the thrill it provides. This option can also be a therapeutic choice for those who have had negative experiences in the past. The Lady Lux is there to guide and support you through it, helping you reach new levels of empowerment.
Submissive / Slave training
The Lady Lux provides a versatile array of training options for those eager to explore the world of submission. Whether you're new to this lifestyle or seeking to refine your skills, a tailored program awaits you. There are several options even one where you may earn a certificate acknowledging your achievements as a submissive or slave.
Bondage and body bags
The Lady Lux offers an extensive array of bondage options, ranging from body bags and rope bondage to chains, crawlers, foil mummification and more. The Lady Lux has a collection of body bags and bondage bags, which she takes pleasure in employing. Being encased within them represents a total surrender to her control. For those seeking to delve deeper into submission, adding a sensory deprivation hood can elevate the experience to a new level.
Maid & Butler training
Embark on an exclusive training session tailored for aspiring submissive butlers and maids, who, whether lacking experience or wanting to refine their skills, have a strong desire to master the art of sophisticated service. Under the careful guidance of The Lady Lux, participants will engage in a comprehensive and hands on training program, designed to instill the necessary skills and etiquette. For more info check out the page: Maid & Butler training.
Kink coaching
Therapy/coaching regarding kink: Lux is also a therapist, coach and sexologist, but her practice extends beyond the traditional therapeutic setting. She also facilitate kink coaching sessions where individuals and couples can talk freely about their interests and desires regarding BDSM. Therapy & coaching sessions do not involve the practice of BDSM itself; instead, it operates within a therapeutic and coaching framework. For more check out the page: Therapy & coaching.
Feminisation and Crossdressing
Exploring Gender Transformations
Renowned for her skills as a gender transformation specialists, she wants people to feel free to explore their gender feelings in BDSM sessions with her. Utilizing feminization not as punishment, but as a tool to shift mindsets and elevate experiences, she upholds a clear ethos of embracing the exploration of gender identity. If you’re seeking an environment that solely uses feminization as a form of sexualization, you’ll need to look elsewhere.
Stepping in her studio you will find a beautiful pink makeover room, filled with personally selected outfits, shoes, wigs, breast forms, jewelry, makeup, and much more. There is also a spacious crossdress walking closet with lots of options to choose from.
Online options
I offer three online options:
Customized online submissive week schedule:
A fully personalized schedule focused on your daily routine and kink interests.
Online maid training:
A structured one week program focusing on maid tasks. With certificate of participation.
Online submissive training:
A one week schedule designed for submissive training. With certificate of participation.
All options include daily contact with Lady Lux and assigned daily tasks. These options are conducted via Telegram, Skype, or WhatsApp.
Pricing: Maid and Submissive Week Training: €100 each, Customized Personal Training: €150
Additional services
As a gender transformation stylist, makeup artist and coach she also runs two other companies, a makeover service Trans Makeover Mtf & FtM and a coaching service Trans Academy with one day personalise lessons to help you become more feminine with your crossdressing or transition. She also works as a therapist & coach at Coaching by Lux
Lux her other services
|| Please note that my other companies services do not involve BDSM ||
- For kink coaching, sexologist or mental health coaching, visit: www.coachingbylux.com
- For MtF & FtM makeover with photoshoot, visit: www.transmakeover.com
- For MtF gender expression and transition classes, visit: www.transacademy.net
Are you ready to surrender to The Lady Lux?
Please note, Lady Lux selectively chooses her clients, ensuring an ideal match for every session. The preliminary consultation is conducted via email. When reaching out, be certain to compose a courteous and detailed self-introduction.
Follow the Lady Lux on her other Socials
If you feel a desire to enhance my life’s luxury and display your respect and servitude by sending me a gift..you can!On my Throne, I’ve set up a shop where you can choose to indulge me with gifts, flowers, dinner, or simply send tips. If this resonates with you, you’ll find opportunities to be of service and bring joy to my life, fulfilling your role as a loyal and devoted sub.