About 'The Lady' Lux
Milady
The titles ‘Lady’ or ‘Milady,’ are not just random social media monikers; In addition to my sophistication and style these titles make reference to me being of genuine noble lineage. I am a descendant of a notorious Dutch lord, my ancestors maintained possession of a castle for 156 years. Regarding the other branch of my family I am a descendant of a viscount. Unlike my infamous forefather who tormented ‘witches,’ I reserve punishment exclusively for those who crave and require it. Utilizing my knowledge in psychology and body language, I carefully observe and respect my subjects’ boundaries.
Nineteen years of experience
I first began my career as a pro Domme at the age of 18, which has been 19 years ago!
I was raised as a Jehovah’s Witness in a strict, gender conforming environment, I struggled with the rigid expectations and the anti LGBTQ+ atmosphere. I choose my own path and left my family behind, changed my last name, and sought to create a space where people could explore their kink and their gender identity freely.
Driven by my personal experiences, I created services that support individuals in various stages of exploration and identity journey.
Although I possess a sadistic nature, I channel it towards positive ends. Guiding individuals on their BDSM journey is a genuine passion of mine.
I am also a therapist, sexologist, columnist, gender transformation stylist and makeup artist and also work as a crossdress and transition coach and fashion designer. One of my areas of expertise involves gender transformations. I want people to feel free to explore their genderfeelings in BDSM sessions with me.
My world exudes an air of sophistication, elegance, and refinement, and I expect my subs and slaves to emulate these qualities. Whether you wish to be a dutiful slave, submissive, pet, object, sissy (for lack of a better word), maid, or a refined lady, I am the Mistress you have been searching for.
I take great pleasure in exploring a diverse range of professional avenues in the past, from designing for Fashion Week (featured in Vogue) and styling for the MTV Awards, to working in the field of archeology and participating in excavations and restorations. In the past I have also worked for National Geographic Channel’s Titanic artifact exhibitions. One of my previous endeavours also included restoring furniture and antiques, but it has become difficult to maintain due to my busy schedule.
As a successful businesswoman, I am involved in several exciting ventures. I am driven by my passion in life and am committed to giving it my all, to quote Nelson Mandela: “There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”
More then just BDSM
Besides being a Pro Domme she also works as a therapist/coach/sexologist, her practice spans across a broad array experience. She specializes in trauma therapy and also religious trauma therapy (especially for ex Jehovah’s Witnesses), grief counseling, she coaches individuals with gender exploration and transition and she is a kink coach one on one and for couples. (ATM she is following several studies). Her diverse expertise allows her to provide a comprehensive approach to mental health, catering to a vast range of personal challenges and journeys.
However, her practice also extends beyond the traditional therapeutic setting. She also facilitate kink exploration sessions where individuals and couples can talk freely about their interests and desires regarding BDSM.
Should you wish to explore this form of coaching, please don’t hesitate to reach out via email for additional information.
Understanding Lux
Please note, Lux is a Lady and a Dominatrix, not an escort. Her sessions do not incorporate any form of sexual activities. When attending a session, it is expected that your private parts remain concealed and ideally securely confined. She has no desire to see or touch them. You are here to seek her professional domination and training. If it’s sexual gratification you seek, there are plenty of other places to find it. Her services revolve around professional domination and training, with the emphasis placed solely on that aspect.
The Lady Lux only engages in sessions that she personally finds enjoyable, and she takes pleasure in collaborating with her subs and clients in unique therapeutic ways. While she can be stern and even sadistic, she also demonstrates empathy, fostering an environment where you can freely express yourself.
These coaching sessions are conducted exclusively in her private studio, as she does not operate in other venues.