I aim to inform and caution others, empowering them to safeguard themselves and maintain the community as a safe environment for exploring kink. Individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are often attracted to environments where they can exert control, receive admiration, and reinforce their sense of superiority.The BDSM community can provide a unique setting that

Another English rewrite of my MassaD magazine collumn. MassaD nr 326 In this column, we will discuss an important topic: fake Dommes and fake Subs. Encounters with these individuals can be discouraging, but there are also real and wonderful connections to be made. I will share my personal experiences and dive into the psychology behind

As you may know, in addition to being a pro domme, therapist and coach, I am also a huge history buff.  I have embarked on a journey to uncover the roots of BDSM and take you through history and its pioneers. Ancient Mesopotamia, one of the earliest advanced civilizations, is where the first accounts of

Recently, I’ve been increasing my writing contributions both here and on my website. In addition to my work as a professional Dominatrix, I also work as a therapist and coach. Over the last few years, I’ve delved into topics concerning BDSM and its psychological ramifications. From the potential risks when pursued by individuals who may

In the domain of BDSM, submissive individuals, often referred to as “subs”, span a wide spectrum of behaviors. From deeply bonded relationships to unhealthy obsessions, it’s crucial to recognize and understand these variations. This article categorizes submissive behaviors from the most positive and enriching to the most negative and harmful. In sharing my recent personal

During my exploration of the historical aspects of BDSM, I stumbled upon an extraordinarily captivating woman. She was a professional dominatrix, known by the name of Theresa Berkley. Theresa Berkley, a bold pioneer and remarkable figure of the 19th-century (Georgian and Regency era). She was much more than just a Dominatrix and brothel owner. Known

My work as a professional dominatrix and therapist allows me to delve into the depths of human psychology, exploring both its light and shadow sides. While I have discussed the transformative power of a responsible Pro Domme in my previous writings, it is crucial to illuminate the darker facets of this industry, notably the emergence

Lux as a multi-faceted therapist. Besides being a Pro Domme I also work as a therapist, my practice spans across a broad array experience. I specialize in trauma therapy and also religious trauma therapy (especially for ex Jehovah’s Witnesses as I was once one of them), grief counseling (where I also apply what I learned from

Lady Lux is not only a celebrated designer whose work has been featured in Vogue, on the MTV Awards red carpet, and in numerous television programs, but she has also graced the covers of at least five magazines herself. Beyond her design and coaching work, Lux is also a podcaster and a columnist. She writes

Lady Lux is not only a multifaceted coach and therapist but also an accomplished fashion designer, renowned for her exceptional work in jewelry, accessories, and exclusive fashion. Her portfolio spans high profile projects, including designing for the MTV Awards’ red carpet and creating a collection for National Geographic Channel’s Titanic exhibition in the Netherlands and