Coaching by lux

Therapy / Coaching

Are you finding that mainstream therapy doesn’t fully understand or support your exploration of BDSM and kink? At Coaching by Lux, I provide expert guidance as a therapist, coach, and sexologist, specializing in kink, relationships, and personal growth. With a compassionate, nonjudgmental approach, I create a safe space for you to explore your desires, heal from past challenges, and empower yourself to embrace all aspects of who you are, kink included.

Kink Coaching

Lux offers a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples who are interested in exploring kink in a conscious and healthy way. As a coach, therapist, sexologist and experienced practitioner, I understand the complexity and the potentially transformative power of kink in both life and relationships.

Embarking on a journey into kink can be an exciting and enriching experience, but it’s essential to approach it responsibly and respectfully. Together, we will take this journey step by step, exploring what kink means to you and how it aligns with your life, values, and personal goals.

For couples who wish to explore kink together, I provide guidance and support to help you navigate this new dynamic within your relationship. We will focus on building open and honest communication, establishing healthy boundaries, and creating a safe environment where you both feel free to express and explore your desires and fantasies.

My goal is to help you cultivate a deeper connection with one another and enrich your intimate relationship through the exploration of kink. Together, we will gently push the boundaries of your comfort zone, discovering new ways to experience pleasure, excitement, and intimacy.

No matter where you are on your journey into kink, I am here to support, encourage, and guide you every step of the way. Whether you are taking your first steps or looking to deepen your practice, I provide a nonjudgmental and empowering space for growth, discovery, and connection.

Let’s take this journey together to create a more fulfilling and connected version of your life and relationships.

THERAPY SESSIONS AND COACHING:

“It’s vital to understand that this service does not involve the practice of BDSM itself; instead, it operates within a therapeutic and coaching framework.” 

In addition to being a kink coach, I also work as a relationship counselor, a gender exploration and transition coach, and a religious trauma counselor. I provide therapeutic support across a wide range of areas, including healing from toxic relationships and domestic violence, navigating (c)PTSD, processing grief, and much more. My approach is compassionate and tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual, helping clients find healing, growth, and empowerment in many facets of their lives.

In the end, therapy, kink, trauma, grief, gender exploration, all these facets of human experience are interconnected. They contribute to the complex tapestry of who we are. By embracing this integrative approach to therapeutic coaching, I offer a safe space for individuals to explore and understand these aspects of their identities, ultimately empowering them to become more fulfilled, authentic versions of themselves.

Therapy sessions

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In real life kink coaching

I offer in person kink coaching, counseling, and therapy for individuals and couples at my practice in Capelle aan den IJssel, Netherlands. Sessions are priced at €100 per hour, the same rate as my therapy services at Coaching by Lux. Embarking on a journey into kink can be an exciting and transformative experience, but it’s important to approach it with care and intention. Together, we will explore what kink means to you, step by step, ensuring it aligns with your values, goals, and overall well being. For couples, I provide tailored guidance to help you navigate the dynamics of kink within your relationship. Our sessions will focus on fostering open communication, setting healthy boundaries, and creating a safe space where you both feel comfortable expressing and exploring your desires and fantasies.

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Online couple kink coaching

I offer online kink coaching, counseling, and therapy for couples, available through Skype, WhatsApp, Telegram, or video calls. Choose from a variety of tailored options to suit your needs: • Relationship Kink Counseling: Address challenges and strengthen your connection. • Dynamic Exploration: Dive deeper into understanding and enhancing your dynamic. • Kink Schedule Planning: Create a personalized structure to integrate kink into your routine. • Full Evening Kink Exploration Plan: I will personalize a plan for a transformative and enjoyable evening tailored to your desires as a couple. Each session is designed to support and guide you on your unique journey into kink.

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Online kink coaching

I offer a range of options for online individual kink coaching, counseling, and therapy, available via Skype, WhatsApp, Telegram, or video calls. These sessions are designed to support your unique journey, including: • Navigating Your Kink Journey: Explore your interests, feelings, challenges, and overall path in kink. • Self exploration: Discover what suits you as a submissive or Dom(me) and how to integrate kink into your life authentically. • Submissive Training: For those exploring their submissive side, I offer online submissive training. More details about this can be found on the sessions page of my website. Each session is tailored to your needs, providing guidance and support as you delve into kink with confidence and clarity.

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